The Annual Gift-Giving Gauntlet: my personal guide to surviving the holidays

For the significant other

This one’s tricky. You know them inside and out, yet somehow, every year, you’re stumped. Do you go the practical with workshop tools or a luxurious sweater? Romantic with a getaway? Or extravagant with a personalized Jaeger LeCoultre Reverso? I say embrace the absurd with lobster socks!

For adult children (20-30)

This age bracket is notoriously difficult. They are independent and discerning, and they probably already own all the electronic gadget. So why not consider experiences: concert tickets, cooking classes, a trip to London with a Harry Potter Studio Tour…

The elderly parents

This one can be bittersweet. They have already accumulated a lifetime of possessions. Do they really need another knick-knack? Consider a donation to their favorite charity in their name or the latest family photo beautifully framed.

For siblings abroad

Ah, the international gift-giving challenge! Shipping can be expensive. Consider an e-gift card to a retailer that ships internationally, like Amazon or Etsy. Or, better yet, plan a visit.

For nieces, nephews, and their offspring

This is where things can get chaotic. Toddlers are unpredictable so opt for age-appropriate toys to encourage creativity and learning. For older kids, consider books, board games, or experiences like the zoo or amusement parks.

For parents-in-law

Tread carefully. A beautifully crafted piece of art, a luxurious bathrobe, or a warm scarf are thoughtful options.

For extended family

A small, thoughtful gesture often suffices. A nice bottle of wine, a box of gourmet chocolates, or a family gathering can go a long way.